One very helpful suggestion they made was that it would be best to establish a genuine friendship with a black man, or any other man for that matter, and wait for an opportunity to present itself. It was important for them to maintain their macho image, even if they secretly would be receptive to a blow job from a man. Another issue, according to them, was that the black culture tended to be more homophobic than the general population and black men are reluctant to take the risk of being exposed, even if they just wanted a blow job.
That made sense to me, because everyone deserves respect for who they are as a person, and not just some perceived physical attribute. They said one problem was that black men did not like being objectified in that way, and would be very unlikely to respond to blatant requests for sex. I posted an article on some Yahoo sites, asking questions about the apparent disparity between our fantasies and the realities that I observed, and I got responses from quite a few black men who gave me some good advice, especially about my interest in the topic of white men sucking mature,black men’s cocks. The odd thing though is that even though there seems to be all that interest by white men and couples in black men, you rarely see opportunities on websites, like Craigslist for example, to meet with black men. One thing I noticed in my reading was that a majority of the cuckold and bisexual stories dealt with the fantasies that many white people have of having sex with black men. This all started for me when my wife lost all interest in sex when we were in our late forties, and I turned to the internet to find porn for my sexual enjoyment. I am a bisexual, married white man in my fiftiess, and I have been reading and writing cuckold, creampie and bisexual stories for years now.